shadrachwhite's posterous

I am thankful for my family, friends and my health.  This year has been a year filled with things for which I can be grateful for.  So many people have shown me the true meaning of friendship.  If you had asked me in 2010 the day before Thanksgiving where I would be a year later I would have been wrong.  The journey is the blessing and for those that are only in search of the goal you just might miss the most important things along the way.  Look around, be grateful for each day.

"If you have something to say to a loved one, don't wait until tomorrow.  Too late comes sooner than later." - Nick Welton (excerpt from the book 5 - Where will you be five years from today?)

A video to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving

This memo was included in my childs introduction and welcome packet for KINDERGARTEN, he is 5.

1. Don't Spoil me.  I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for -- I'm only testing you.
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me.  I prefer it; it makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits.  I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am.  It only makes me behave stupidly "big."
5. Don't correct me in front of other people if you can help it.  I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins.  It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences.  I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
8. Don't be upset when I say, "I hate you"  Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Dont' take too much notice of my small ailments.  Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag.  If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like.  That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions.  If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent.  That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
14. Dont' tell me my fears are silly.  They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever sugget that you are perfect or infallible.  It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think it is beneath your diginity to apologize to me.  An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget I love experimenting.  I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up.  It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy.  I need you.

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